Preparing a marriage are extremely stressful. You might notice both you and your partner feeling tense, overrun, as well as a bit snippy with each other. But sometimesâ€”only sometimesâ€”you may notice some larger issues. Wedding preparation, with all the pressure so it involves, could be a time that is incredibly revealing. You may begin to notice incompatibilities or edges of the partner which you have not seen beforeâ€”and which can be actually stressing.