Why bother when you can finally get indonesian, pinoy, sri lankan at no cost (in reality, they spend), if they're reluctant, all you need to do would be to provide a telephone call..and after couple of years or so..you could possibly get a fresh one.
very same, very same. The real difference is, when you look at the days that are olden they spend with cows, goats and donkeys.
When it comes to dudes it is much better than arranged wedding by the parents. at the least he get to decide on.
But also for girls it's a huge gamble because she do not get to decide on.